Posts Tagged ‘Gender’
[youtube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zH0oi-WDNys] . Excerpts from a revered teacher
February 12, 2009
Like a Zen Koan, men who get women don’t need them and don’t want them. They aren’t pretending. They don’t want them and they don’t need them.
Test this formula in reverse. Are women attracted to men who adore them? Temporarily maybe. But ultimately, women don’t want to be idealized. They want to be seen and loved for whom they really are.
My wisdom has come too late to help me. In spite of being bright and relatively successful, I squandered my romantic life as poster boy for needy. I was programmed by the mass media and education to regard sex and love, especially sex, as the prerequisite for my personal development. I was taught that these were the highest experiences life had to offer. In other words, I was inducted into an occult secular religion which required …. a woman.
PROGRAMMED TO FAIL
Popular occulture programmed me for failure. It taught me to idealize attractive women, to worship the “goddess” within, to “need” them to validate me. At the same time, women were programmed to think they were more unique and important than they really were. In heterosexuality, women empower their husbands by exchanging their worldly power for his power expressed as love. (See my book “Cruel Hoax.”) But, without their knowledge, women were retrained to seek power instead and emasculate men. –more– Henry Makow Ph.D.